'129 ways to get a husband': Hilarious 1958 magazine article with tips including 'read the obituaries to find widowers' and 'get lost at football games' goes viral

A list of ways to find a husband published by a 1958 woman's magazine has gone viral, with people calling it 'hilarious' and 'shocking'. 

The list was originally published in now-defunct American magazine McCall's and was first shared on Facebook by Kim Marx-Kuczynski, from Wiscosin, in October 2018, however it recently resurfaced on Twitter after it was shared by journalist Jane Lavender, who called it 'amazing' and 'incredible'.      

The extraordinary tips for finding a spouse include standing on a busy street corner with a lasso, or carrying around a hatbox to grab the attention of single men.

Other advice from the magazine, which was published monthly from 1873 to 2002 includes 'be friendly to ugly men' and 'rent a billboard and post your photo and phone number on it'.

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Entertaining: A list of 129 tips for finding a husband that was published in a magazine in 1958 has gone viral on Twitter after being posted by journalist Jane Lavender

The article begins:  'In the United States today there are sixteen million women over the age of seventeen who are still waiting for a marriage proposal Presumably the vast majority of them would like to be.'  

Jane shared an excerpt from list on Twitter - posting tips 14 to 41 - and it quickly went viral, with users retweeting it more than 3,000 times, while others responded to voice their amusement at the outdated advice.  

Some of the tips that tickled Twitter users the most included, 'Carry a hatbox,' and, 'Learn to paint. Set up an easel outside engineering school.' 

'I need to find myself a hat box - now,' one said. 'I'm a big fan of "carry a hatbox". Simple, yet effective' added another. 

'"Get a government job overseas" and "make a lot of money"... good advice but erases the need for a husband,' commented a third. 

'How strange. I walked past an engineering school last year & kept tripping over all these easels – now I understand why…' joked a fourth.

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Since Jane posted it, the list has been retweeted 3,000 times, with many users admitting they were left in stitches by the quirky and outdated advice 

Others said the list was a 'perfect rom-com prompt' while some joked about finally realizing why they're single.

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Kim's post shows the full list from US magazine McCall's, which was published in 1958. It's cover is pictured

'First rule of engineering school is to under no circumstances look one of those sirens behind those easels in the eye,' joked one.

'23 is my favorite—hell, you could start circling the obits like classified ads if you get really thirsty!' added another.

'I'd like to know more of the backstory to 38 and why the author chose to say dropping a handkerchief 'still' works. Was it falling out of fashion? Was there a PR campaign by the handkerchief makers? So many questions!' said another. 

After sharing the list on Facebook in October 2018, Kim, the original poster, told BoredPanda that her boyfriend saw the magazine at a rummage sale and bought it for $1.   

'I think the article is reflective of the social mores and 50s style in general, and I found the comparison between what was acceptable then and what is acceptable now fascinating. It also made me grateful that so much progress has been made. 

MCCALL'S FULL LIST OF HOW TO GET A HUSBAND, PUBLISHED IN 1958 

1. Get a dog and walk it.

2. Have your car breakdown at strategic places.

3. Attend night school - take course men like.

4. Look in the census reports for places with the most single men.

5. Read the obituaries to find eligible widowers.

6. Join a hiking club.

7. Take up golf and go to different golf courses.

8. Take several short vacations at different places rather than one long one at one place.

9. Sit on a park bench and feed the pigeons.

10. Take a bicycle trip through Europe.

11. Get a job in a medical, dental or law school.

12. Become a nurse or an airline stewardess.

13. Ask your friends' husbands who the eligible men are in their offices.

14. Be nice to everybody - they may have an eligible son or brother.

15. Get a government job overseas.

16. Volunteer for jury duty.

17. Be friendly to ugly men - handsome is as handsome does.

18. Tell your friends you're interested in getting married.

19. Get lost at football games.

20. Don't take a job in a company largely run by women.

21. Get a job demonstrating fishing tackle in a sports store.

22. On a plane, train or bus don't sit next to a woman - sit next to a man.

23. Go to all school reunions, there may be widowers there.

24. Don't be afraid to associate with more attractive girls, they may have some leftovers.

25. Go back to your home town - the wild kid next door may now be an eligible bachelor.

26. Don't room with a girl who is a sad sack and let her pull you down to her level.

27. Get a part-time job in a convention bureau.

28. Change apartments from time to time.

29. When travelling stay at small hotels where it's easier to meet strangers.

30. Learn to paint. Set up easel outside engineering school.

31. Stumble when you walk into a room he's in

32. Forget discretion every once in a while and call him up.

33. Carry a hat box.

34. Wear a band-aid - people always ask what happened.

35. Make a lot of money.

36. Learn several funny stories and learn to tell them well - but make sure you don't tell him more than once.

37. Walk up to him and tell him you need some advice.

38. Dropping the handkerchief still works.

39. Have your father buy some theatre tickets that need to be got rid of.

40. Stand in a corner and cry softly - chances are he'll come over to ask what's wrong.

41. If you are at a resort, have a bell boy page you.

42. Buy a convertible - men like to ride in them.

43. Don't let him fish for your name next time you meet.

44. Learn how to bake tasty apple pies - bring one into the office and let the eligible bachelors taste it.

45. Laugh at his jokes.

46. If there's a wallflower among the men you know, why not cultivate them?

47. 'Accidentally' have your purse fly open, scattering its contents across the street.

48. Men like to think they're authorities on perfume, ask his advice on what kind you should wear.

49. Get better looking glasses - men still make passes at girls who wear glasses - or try contact lenses.

50. Practice your drinking with your women friends first.

51. If you dye your hair, pick a shade and stick to it.

52. Wear high heels most of the time - they're sexier.

53. Unless he happens to be shorter than you are.

54. Tell him he's handsome.

55. Take good care of your health - men don't like girls who are ill.

56. If you look good in sweaters, wear one on every third date.

57. Dress differently from the other girls in the office.

58. Get a sunburn.

59. Watch your vocabulary.

60. Go on a diet if you need to.

61. When you are with him, order your steak rare.

62. Don't tell him about your allergies.

63. European women use their eyes to good advantage - practise in front of a mirror.

64. Buy a full-length mirror and take a good, long look before you go and meet him.

65. Change the shade of your stockings and be sure to keep the seams straight

 66. Get that fresh scrubbed look by scrubbing.

 67. If he has bought you any accessory or trinket, wear it.

68. Use the ashtray, don't crush our cigarettes in a coffee cup.

69. Polish up on making introductions, learn to do them gracefully.

70. Don't be too fussy.

71. Stick to your moral standards.

72. Don't whine - girls who whine, stay on the vine.

73. Show him you can have fun on a cheap date - but don't overdo it.

74. Don't let your parents treat him like a potential husband.

75. Ask your parents to disappear when you're entertaining.

76. Double date with a happily married couple, let him see what it's like.

77. Tell his friends nice things about him.

78. Send his mother a birthday card.

79. Ask his mother for recipes.

80. Talk to his father about business and agree taxes are too high.

81. Buy his sister's children an occasional present.

82. On the first date tell him you aren't thinking about getting married.

83. Don't talk about how many children you want.

84. If he's a fisherman, learn to scale and clean fish.

85. Don't tell him everything about yourself at the start. Hold some in reserve.

86. When you're out strolling with him, don't insist on stopping at every shop window.

87. Don't tell him how much your clothes cost.

88. Learn to sew and wear something you have made yourself.

89. Don't gossip about him.

90. Never let him know he's the only one, even if you have to stay home one or two nights a week.

91. Don't be a pushover when he's trying to make a date.

92. Very early on in your dating, why not get a favourite song that you both regard as your own?

93. Find out about the girls he hasn't married. Don't repeat their mistakes.

94. Don't discuss your former boyfriends.

95. If you are widowed or divorced, don't discuss your former husband.

96. Be flexible - if he decides to skip the dance and go rowing on the lake, go - even if you're wearing your best evening gown.

97. Hide your Phi Beta Kappa key if you own one - later on junior can play with it.

98. Turn wolves into husbands by assuming they have honour.

99. Resist the urge to make him over - before marriage that is.

100. Remain innocent but not ignorant.

101. Learn to draw the line but do it gracefully.

102. Make your home comfortable when he calls - large ashtrays, comfortable chairs.

103. Learn to play poker.

104. If he's rich, tell him you like his money - the honesty will intrigue him.

105. Never let him believe your career is more important than your marriage.

106. Buy him an amusing or particularly appropriate present every once in a while - but don't make it too expensive.

107. Clip and mail him a funny cartoon that means something to both of you.

108. Don't tell dirty stories.

109. Stop being a mama's girl - don't let him think he'll have in-law trouble, even if he will.

110. Point out that the death rate of single men is twice that of married men.

111. Go to Yale.

112. Get a hunting licence.

113. If your mother is fat, tell him you take after your father. If he's fat too, tell him you're adopted!

114. Stow away on a battleship.

115. Rent a billboard and post your photo and phone number on it.

116. Paint your name and number on a roof and write 'give me a buzz pilots'.

117. Start a whispering campaign about how sought-after you are.

118. Sink at a fashionable beach of high noon.

119. Ride the airport back and forth from the airport.

120. Bribe Ferris-wheel operator to get you stuck at the top of the Ferris-wheel.

121. Stand on a busy street corner with a lasso.

122. Carry a camera and ask strange, handsome men if they can would mind snapping your picture.

123. Ask your mother to take in male boarders.

124. Make and sell toupees - bald men make easy catches.

125. Advertise for a male co-owner of a boat.

126. If you see a man with a flat, offer to catch it

127. Carry a tow chain in the trunk of your automobile.

128. Let it be known in your office that you have a button box and will sew on bachelor's loose button.

129. Don't marry him if he has too many loose buttons